Restraining Orders and Domestic Violence

Orange County Restraining Order Lawyer Offers Path to Protection

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A restraining order can protect you from abuse caused by a partner, spouse or family member. Acts of domestic violence that require restraining orders can also affect child custody, child support, visitation rights and other aspects of family law. Our Orange County Family Law Associates can answer any questions you have about domestic violence and restraining orders. You want to be sure that you filled out the form correctly, and that the order is properly enforced. Our restraining order lawyer offers free consultations that are 100 percent confidential. Below, we explain what counts as domestic violence and what happens once you file the restraining order.

What Counts as Domestic Violence?

California law defines domestic violence as abuse, or threats of abuse, made by someone with whom you have an intimate relationship – spouse, domestic partner, boyfriend/girlfriend, someone you have a child with or someone you are related to by blood.

Abuse or threat of abuse can come in the following forms:

  • Recklessly or intentionally hurting someone, or trying to hurt someone
  • Making threatening remarks, or making someone reasonably afraid that harm might come to him or her
  • Sexual violence
  • Disturbing behavior, such as harassment, stalking, following you or preventing you from leaving your home
  • Destroying or harming personal property, including pets
  • Psychological and emotional abuse

What Happens When I File a Restraining Order?

Victims of domestic violence can file a restraining order, also called orders of protection or protective orders. If a child is suffering abuse, a parent can file a restraining order on behalf of the child. If a child is age 12 or older, he or she can file the order independently.

There are two main criteria that a court will consider before making an official court order:

  • Were you abused? (Including threats, intimidation and emotional abuse)
  • Does the abuser have a close relationship with you?

Once the restraining order is entered by court, it can force the abuser to stay away from you, pay child support/spousal support, move out of your home, stay away from your child’s school, abstain from possessing firearms and pay certain bills.

People who file for emergency restraining orders will have a judge decide the case in less than one day. For temporary orders, you do not have to serve paperwork to the abuser, nor does the abuser have to even know about the hearing. It is an “ex parte” hearing because only one party, the victim, testifies before the judge.

If the judge enters a temporary restraining order, a sheriff or private process server must serve the abuser for the order to take effect. The temporary order will give a date for a full hearing, usually about two weeks later. The abuser has the opportunity to be at this full hearing, to testify and to have an attorney. The judge will decide whether to extend or cancel the terms of the temporary order.

What Else Should I Think About When Filing a Restraining Order?

Keep in mind: police throughout California will have a copy of the order, but if you need to relocate, you must alert the new local authorities about the restraining order. It is always a good idea to take an extra copy of a restraining order to your local police department.

If you wish to file for divorce, we can file the paperwork at the same time or shortly after you pursue a restraining order.

Need a Lawyer for California Restraining Orders?

Consultations with our restraining order lawyer are free, confidential and secure. The first step to a new, brighter future starts when you pick up the phone and schedule a meeting with us. You and your children deserve to be safe.